Said this in a comment, realised it needed it's own entry

[the_nita]

for my own remembrance.

Nita was not made to be a SAHM.

I think the next person I hear disparaging the amount of sheer,brutal, fucking work it is to be a SAHM is getting either a) a shot to the mouth or b) a severe tongue-lashing - depending on how tired I am.

SAHM is work - anyone who tells you different is selling something.